If you are new to relationships, you will undoubtedly want to consider a few things before you start a new life. Before you begin the journey, consider a few things.Being mature is important because it will enable you to discuss issues before they escalate. If you are able to be calm and mature, you can discuss things with your new guy or girl. Being mature means that you are also independent and you are able to form your own opinions and interests.

Consider your partner's circle of friends. Be aware that you may find some people are good talkers but have very little things to offer besides sweet talk. In fact, figure out if your new friend has a little black book filled with numbers of other prospects. If this person is always unavailable, you may not be the only one he is dating.

Figure out how much time you can devote to the relationship. If you have multiple jobs, lots of housework and other responsibilities, you may not be able to meet your partner's needs. Sort this out with your partner.

Read relationship books online or if you have a chance, find some great relationship books at your book store or better yet, download them. Update yourself, rushing to a friend or family for every issue will only create more!

Your relationship has a better chance of blooming if you have shared interests. If you like movies and he doesn't, it may make for a boring weekend. Keep in mind that it is natural for people to have different interests. However, if you have more different interests than common interests, try to find a common ground.

Find out if you trust him/her. Trust is the most important thing in the world. If you don't have trust, you may not find it within your heart to love him/her. Try to work on this.

Love yourself. Make sure that you truly, deeply love and respect yourself before you go out or involve yourself fully in a new relationship.